
Book Review
Leading with Questions - How Leaders Find the Right
Solutions by Knowing What to Ask
By Michael Marquardt
Asking
rather than telling has become the key to leadership success! Too few
leaders lead with questions. They tend to dictate or debate rather than
inquire and discuss.
"In Leading with
Questions, Michael Marquardt maps the future of leadership. 'The
leader of the past was a person who told,' Peter Drucker once said.
'The leader of the future will be a person who asks.' Read this book
if you want to see the future."
- Robert Kramer,
director, executive education programs, American University
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Western culture has conditioned most of us to use telling style in our
communications. This style is appropriate at times but often overused.
Telling tends to control conversations, shuts off the flow of ideas, and may
trigger combativeness or other forms of self-protection. Telling techniques
may create stability, predictability, and uniformity, but they do not bring
about deeper commitment and creative problem solving.
Questioning tends to open people up. It stimulates learning, creativity, and
understanding. It requires a conscious effort to reprogram our autopilot
responses by paying attention to our conditioned urge to tell and control
others.Astute leaders
use questions to encourage full participation and teamwork, to spur innovation
and outside-the-box thinking, to empower others, to build relationships with
customers, to solve problems, and more. Recent research - and the
experience of a growing number of organizations - now points to the conclusion
that the most successful leaders lead with questions.
Marquardt does a nice job of
outlining the benefits of leading with questions and providing practical
"How To" guidelines on:
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Asking the right questions
- Types of effective questions
- Avoiding unhelpful questions
- How to frame questions
- Steps in the questioning process
- Sincere listening
"I have learned that
leadership is not about knowing all the answers. It's about knowing what
great questions to ask, and carefully listening to those answers. This
book is a timely piece of management wisdom that shows leaders how to ask great
questions - questions that inspire, motivate, and empower the organization."
- Patrick Thng, managing
director, Development Bank of Singapore
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